Welcome faith-filled, doubt-filled, practicing, lapsed, perfect, and not-so-perfect Christians…

My objective is to be grace-filled and inclusive.

I share safe, shame-free sex and pleasure education and coaching. I offer information about sex and relationships that celebrates freedom from the sex shame-and-blame mentality found at many Christian websites that mention sex or are about sexuality. Sex education tends to focus on negative consequences and clinical biological functions. I bridge the gap by educating with a focus on pleasure and personal responsibility.

the best thing to hold onto in life is each other.

My aim is that my clients will love their sexual bodies and those of others as their Creator does.

My approach to coaching is realistic but fun, educational, holistic, and science-based. I encourage my clients in building their interpersonal relationships and towards embracing healthy, vibrant sexuality. My clients essentially define my role in assisting them to achieve their own personal goals.

If you’ve been searching for a sex and relationship coach that shares faith-friendly, pleasure-positive, science-sound information in a loving, impartial, and compassionate way, you’ve come to the right place. Contact me here.

“My husband and I were basically in what was a sexless marriage before we consulted with Micki. We’d resigned ourselves to thinking that passion was a thing of the past. We were wrong!”



Maureen, Fort Worth, TX

“Thanks for helping me recover the confidence that I’d actually forgotten I ever had! I can’t tell you how wonderful it is to not be afraid to just be myself again.”



Jennifer, Grapevine, Texas

Recent Posts

When Honesty is NOT the Best Policy

Of course, I always promote honest and open communication in every relationship, especially the one you have with your committed, loving partner. That said, you may be surprised to find me promoting the idea that honesty is not always the best policy when it comes to the bedroom, and I’ll explain why. When Honesty IS … Continue reading When Honesty is NOT the Best Policy

5 Types of Intimacy Necessary to a Successful, Loving, Sexual Relationship

When clients come to me looking for a better sex life with their partner, one of the first questions I always ask is, “How is your intimacy together?” All too often we are quick to equate intimacy with sex, meaning penetrative sex itself. But, what is intimacy really?

An Introduction to Temperature Play [an o.school streaming webinar]

Creating heightened sensory experiences through temperature play can be extremely erotic if done properly. In this previously recorded webinar stream, sex educator Micki Allen gives an intro to temperature play. Temperature play is when you introduce a bit of heat or cold into your sexual activities. It can be a form of foreplay or the … Continue reading An Introduction to Temperature Play [an o.school streaming webinar]

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