Welcome faith-filled, doubt-filled, practicing, lapsed, perfect, and not-so-perfect Christians…

My objective is to be grace-filled and inclusive.

I share safe, shame-free sex and pleasure education and coaching. I offer information about sex and relationships that celebrates freedom from the sex shame-and-blame mentality found at many Christian websites that mention sex or are about sexuality.

the best thing to hold onto in life is each other.

My aim is that my clients will love their sexual bodies and those of others as their Creator does.

My approach to coaching is realistic but fun, educational, holistic, and science-based. I encourage my clients in building their interpersonal relationships and towards embracing healthy, vibrant sexuality.

If you’ve been searching for a sex and relationship coach that shares faith-friendly, pleasure-positive, science-sound information in a lovinginclusive, and compassionate way, you’ve come to the right place. Contact me here.

“My husband and I were basically in what was a sexless marriage before we consulted with Micki. We’d resigned ourselves to thinking that passion was a thing of the past. We were wrong!”



Maureen, Fort Worth, TX

“Thanks for helping me recover the confidence that I’d actually forgotten I ever had! I can’t tell you how wonderful it is to not be afraid to just be myself again.”



Jennifer, Grapevine, Texas

Recent Posts

An Introduction to Temperature Play [an o.school streaming webinar]

Creating heightened sensory experiences through temperature play can be extremely erotic if done properly. In this previously recorded webinar stream, sex educator Micki Allen gives an intro to temperature play. Temperature play is when you introduce a bit of heat or cold into your sexual activities. It can be a form of foreplay or the … Continue reading An Introduction to Temperature Play [an o.school streaming webinar]

What if You Stopped Praying that God Would “Fix” Your Husband? [a guest post by Arrettres Hollins]

Sometimes when we are going through things in our marriage, we are completely focused on what is wrong with our husband. We go to God with lengthy prayers about what he needs to do to fix our husband. We rehearse his flaws, what he has done wrong. Sometimes, we even give God a timeline and … Continue reading What if You Stopped Praying that God Would “Fix” Your Husband? [a guest post by Arrettres Hollins]

What Churches Get Wrong about Sex

God does not hate sex. Let me repeat that just so there isn’t any confusion. God does not hate sex. You may be wondering why I am opening with this line. Well, I’ll tell you why. Almost everything I learned from well-meaning Christian adults led me to believe that God hated sex. And not only that, … Continue reading What Churches Get Wrong about Sex

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