I first began educating people about human sexuality in 1990 when I joined the South Plains AIDS Resource Center, one of the first AIDS outreach programs in West Texas, as a student liaison.
While teaching Literature and Grammar at a private Christian school, and as the only instructor freely confident in speaking about sexuality, I was asked to teach high school sex education in health classes, limited to an abstinence-only curriculum. It was at that time I came to understand what a dangerous disservice it was to young people. I realized that conditioning impressionable minds to view sex as something taboo and akin to only disease and unwanted pregnancy could have devastating and long-lasting ill-effects.
I’ve since made it my primary mission to repair the misrepresentation that I, and countless other well-meaning adults, presented concerning Christian sexuality. Earning credentials from the Institute of Sexuality Education and Enlightenment as well as the Incarnation Institute of Sex & Faith, I have armed myself with the science-based and faith-friendly information necessary to foster and encourage Christians in overcoming social conditioning and religious repression in order to begin building and maintaining healthy intimate relationships.
My spice and I have been married since 1993 and together have co-created seven fiercely independent and fantastic children.
My approach to coaching is realistic but fun, educational, holistic, and science-based. I encourage my clients in building their interpersonal relationships and towards embracing healthy, vibrant sexuality. My aim is that my clients will love their sexual bodies and those of others as their Creator does.
If you are interested in learning more, I’m here for you. I encourage you to contact me here.
WHAT ARE MY CREDENTIALS?
I am a Master Hypnotist and Certified Consulting Hypnotist with the National Guild of Hypnotists. My special area of interest is helping clients rid themselves of unwanted fear, shame, and anger.
I am a certified Life Coach specializing in Intimacy and Relationship Coaching as well as a Sexual Health & Pleasure Educator and Consultant. I assist individuals and couples in clarifying their own intimate needs and boundaries, suggesting the tools they need to experience exceptional sexual health and well-being. I also offer monthly educational workshops centered around sexual health and pleasure.
I am a Pleasure Professional affiliated with O.school centering on a host of different sex and relationship topics including sex and religion, healthy communication, creating and re-creating partnered relationship visions, pleasure techniques, and sexual health.
Yes, I am an ordained non-denominational Christian Minister, but I am not a preacher. I do not preach and I do not proselytize. My goal is to simply share the love of our God with the compassion of Jesus Christ. I abide neither shame nor blame. Period. Full stop. Although I come from a Judeo-Christian perspective, please know that I work with clients from all spiritual beliefs and backgrounds. “I’m holding a space for you.” ♥
My aim is that all of my clients learn to love themselves and others as their Creator does.
WHAT SETS ME APART FROM OTHER INTIMACY & RELATIONSHIP COACHES?
For clients who are struggling with specific, deeply rooted sexuality or relationship challenges, I can integrate hypnosis services in order to get to the root causes of their concerns in order to empty their emotional cups, replacing their self-limiting thoughts and behaviors with healthy, positive facts so my clients may progress with certainty towards healthy sexual & intimate expression.
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