When Honesty is NOT the Best Policy

Of course, I always promote honest and open communication in every relationship, especially the one you have with your committed, loving partner. That said, you may be surprised to find me promoting the idea that honesty is not always the best policy when it comes to the bedroom, and I'll explain why. When Honesty IS … Continue reading When Honesty is NOT the Best Policy

An Introduction to Temperature Play [an o.school streaming webinar]

Creating heightened sensory experiences through temperature play can be extremely erotic if done properly. In this previously recorded webinar stream, sex educator Micki Allen gives an intro to temperature play. Temperature play is when you introduce a bit of heat or cold into your sexual activities. It can be a form of foreplay or the … Continue reading An Introduction to Temperature Play [an o.school streaming webinar]

Facts about Masturbation

For the record, masturbation is totally natural — and yes, it is "normal" to masturbate, whether you’re sexually active in a relationship or not. Thanks to modern science (by way of 3-D imaging ultrasounds), we have proof that even unborn babies touch their genitals in utero. Whether or not the unborn touch their genitals for pleasure … Continue reading Facts about Masturbation

One in Every 5 Women Never Orgasm … [guest post by Myola Woods]

Only a third of women can consistently have orgasms – This means two-thirds are unable to consistently have orgasms. These statistics break my heart, from my work as a Somatic Sex Educator and my own experience I know there is a different way to be with orgasms. I hear you saying “Myola, why is it … Continue reading One in Every 5 Women Never Orgasm … [guest post by Myola Woods]

Summer Lovin’: Body Positivity for a Sexy Summer

Summer fashions can sometimes send us on an emotional roller coaster. Let's explore feeling sexy in our skin and rockin' our bods in everything from swimsuits and sandals to sundresses and shorts. Join Micki for a virtual Pool Party primer that promises sunny days and easy-going vibes ahead! Please feel free to share this invitation … Continue reading Summer Lovin’: Body Positivity for a Sexy Summer

5 Ways to Be An ALLY to the LGBTQ Community

Wrapping up Pride Month shouldn't be the end of our love and support for our friends and family in the Queer Community. Here are five simple habits that I've found to be effective and respectful ways to be a friend and ally. Know that all fellow human beings are worthy of dignity and respect. Wow, … Continue reading 5 Ways to Be An ALLY to the LGBTQ Community

In Honor of Pride Month: This Christian Ally’s Credo

Dear Friends, As you've likely figured out by now, I am a practicing (as in, "I'm workin' at it, y'all, and am by no means perfect at it yet") Christian. As someone who has professed for over forty years a deep and abiding love for God Our Creator, I believe that every single human life … Continue reading In Honor of Pride Month: This Christian Ally’s Credo