An Introduction to Temperature Play [an o.school streaming webinar]

Creating heightened sensory experiences through temperature play can be extremely erotic if done properly. In this previously recorded webinar stream, sex educator Micki Allen gives an intro to temperature play. Temperature play is when you introduce a bit of heat or cold into your sexual activities. It can be a form of foreplay or the … Continue reading An Introduction to Temperature Play [an o.school streaming webinar]

What Churches Get Wrong about Sex

God does not hate sex. Let me repeat that just so there isn't any confusion. God does not hate sex. You may be wondering why I am opening with this line. Well, I'll tell you why. Almost everything I learned from well-meaning Christian adults led me to believe that God hated sex. And not only that, … Continue reading What Churches Get Wrong about Sex

What is Intimacy and Relationship Coaching?

What is Intimacy and Relationship Coaching? Similar to life coaching, intimacy and relationship coaching is a process that aims to assist clients by helping them to work towards and achieve their personal and/or relationship goals. Unlike a general life coach who may assist their client with organizational skills or weight loss, a coach who focuses … Continue reading What is Intimacy and Relationship Coaching?

One in Every 5 Women Never Orgasm … [guest post by Myola Woods]

Only a third of women can consistently have orgasms – This means two-thirds are unable to consistently have orgasms. These statistics break my heart, from my work as a Somatic Sex Educator and my own experience I know there is a different way to be with orgasms. I hear you saying “Myola, why is it … Continue reading One in Every 5 Women Never Orgasm … [guest post by Myola Woods]

5 Ways to Be An ALLY to the LGBTQ Community

Wrapping up Pride Month shouldn't be the end of our love and support for our friends and family in the Queer Community. Here are five simple habits that I've found to be effective and respectful ways to be a friend and ally. Know that all fellow human beings are worthy of dignity and respect. Wow, … Continue reading 5 Ways to Be An ALLY to the LGBTQ Community

Gay Christianity is Not an Oxymoron [video series]

An oxymoron is a figure of speech in which two apparently contradictory terms appear together; for example, the expression "thundering silence" seems to contradict itself -- thunder being a loud sound and silence being the absence of sound. There are those who believe that, if you are a Christian, you cannot be gay (or lesbian, or … Continue reading Gay Christianity is Not an Oxymoron

In Honor of Pride Month: This Christian Ally’s Credo

Dear Friends, As you've likely figured out by now, I am a practicing (as in, "I'm workin' at it, y'all, and am by no means perfect at it yet") Christian. As someone who has professed for over forty years a deep and abiding love for God Our Creator, I believe that every single human life … Continue reading In Honor of Pride Month: This Christian Ally’s Credo