When clients come to me looking for a better sex life with their partner, one of the first questions I always ask is, “How is your intimacy together?” All too often we are quick to equate intimacy with sex, meaning penetrative sex itself. But, what is intimacy really?
Sometimes when we are going through things in our marriage, we are completely focused on what is wrong with our husband. We go to God with lengthy prayers about what he needs to do to fix our husband. We rehearse his flaws, what he has done wrong. Sometimes, we even give God a timeline and … Continue reading What if You Stopped Praying that God Would “Fix” Your Husband? [a guest post by Arrettres Hollins]
God does not hate sex. Let me repeat that just so there isn't any confusion. God does not hate sex. You may be wondering why I am opening with this line. Well, I'll tell you why. Almost everything I learned from well-meaning Christian adults led me to believe that God hated sex. And not only that, … Continue reading What Churches Get Wrong about Sex
Faith-friendly. Sex-positive. Shame-free.
An oxymoron is a figure of speech in which two apparently contradictory terms appear together; for example, the expression "thundering silence" seems to contradict itself -- thunder being a loud sound and silence being the absence of sound. There are those who believe that, if you are a Christian, you cannot be gay (or lesbian, or … Continue reading Gay Christianity is Not an Oxymoron
Dear Friends, As you've likely figured out by now, I am a practicing (as in, "I'm workin' at it, y'all, and am by no means perfect at it yet") Christian. As someone who has professed for over forty years a deep and abiding love for God Our Creator, I believe that every single human life … Continue reading In Honor of Pride Month: This Christian Ally’s Credo
How can I be sex-positive and a Christian at the same time? Because I love Christ and I love helping people reverse sexual shame, repression, and negativity. I share why in this video.
How to, and why, you should practice self-love are the topics discussed in this week's video.
Knowing the seven pillars of strong, healthy relationships is important knowledge for anyone who wants to build, nurture, and solidify their personal and interpersonal relationships.